Relationships

This post is based on observations and past experiences. When guys use girls and vice versa. I do admit that I made some mistakes in the pass where i was the one who ruined a relationship. I thought at the moment that it was my first time to follow my heart. To follow what I actually want. With that decision I ended up hurting a friend. I lost that friend. Its still awkward to be in the same place with her. I have learned from my mistake and I would not want that to happen to anyone. But of course we could not avoid that. All we can do is learn from the past and hope for the best. Why go into a relationship when you don't even have any feelings for that person? Being in a relationship is not having the most boyfriends or girlfriends, its not about who is having sex with who, its finding that person who you want to spend the rest of your life with. Only a few people reach their goal of finding their ONE TRUE LOVE. Those are the people who are so lucky. Through thick and thin, better for worse, till death do they part they will always stay faithful and love their partner. But why now a days people get married for the wrong reasons? Why do they play with relationships just to break up in the end ? And how can you tell the difference between infatuation and TRUE LOVE? Nowadays, you have to be practical. You want to get married to a person who is successful and can support you and your future family. You don't marry for love anymore. Both guys and girls should treat their partner like it was their last to love, be faithful, loyal, trustworthy, and love them like no other. Have so much more things to say but all jumbled up in my mind :)